I heard it from close frenz and families that we love our fellow people. Sounds nice and warming. Most of the times families tend to act as a source of support and close ties. I havent had the slightest idea why at times they tend to get over protective and reason theories that has no logic. Individuality is the key word that loses the very essence when decisions of life come across. Pressures and redundant motives tend to make it directionless and most times the cause of anxiety. Face it with career choices, marriages, decisions on kids and so and so forth. Particularly prehistoric thinking and superstitions make them blindfolded. Hardly do they realise that such is the pressure on the individual that for him/her to take decisions where choices are hardly a few that between respect for their views and place for their ambitions take a toll.
In all true respect the cliche dilemma and slogan is WE CARE and we know whats good for u. It makes my head a little dizzy and painful.
Hardly does one realise that true care and understanding comes with the sense of support of individuality and its choices. Many tend to forget that respect never comes by force but in all sense comes with guidance and support to let the individual make a choice. The choice to choose a career, a partner and overall the way he/she dreams about life.
So before you say U CARE and U know EVERYTHING remember that INDIVIDUALITY deserves more priority than a what viewpoint you have.
3 comments:
HMMMM...... I can see where u got the inspiration from,this is something even i fail to understand. What is confusing is is that at one point they want the person to be independent, a person who is able to take decision for himself...& at other times they feel they know the best....some times ur individualism goes for a toss....so do ur ambitions...unless ur a strong headed person, note that in bold...
i dont know what makes you think that loose your identity when somebebody advises you somehting. At the end its you who make the decisions right? When it comes to your life you and nobody else is the ultimate decision making authority. When you live in a society there are always going to be people around with all kind of experiences to share. We cant stop that.
Imagine a world where you are alone with all your individuality. Like in a large hall with thousands of computers doing their work with only one way interaction. how long can you live in that hall? and even if you live can you really grow there? THINK
Its always upto us not to get pressurised and protect the individuality.
I agree!
Sometimes Individuality does get marred when you gobble up too much advice and that is the very reason for people growlin at peers in a situation where the're making a decison and at the same time getting truckloads of advice. But yes i do turn for advice if i feel i cant decide quick enough and really need a verdict!
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