INDIVIDUALITY-deserves the highest place

I heard it from close frenz and families that we love our fellow people. Sounds nice and warming. Most of the times families tend to act as a source of support and close ties. I havent had the slightest idea why at times they tend to get over protective and reason theories that has no logic. Individuality is the key word that loses the very essence when decisions of life come across. Pressures and redundant motives tend to make it directionless and most times the cause of anxiety. Face it with career choices, marriages, decisions on kids and so and so forth. Particularly prehistoric thinking and superstitions make them blindfolded. Hardly do they realise that such is the pressure on the individual that for him/her to take decisions where choices are hardly a few that between respect for their views and place for their ambitions take a toll.
In all true respect the cliche dilemma and slogan is WE CARE and we know whats good for u. It makes my head a little dizzy and painful.
Hardly does one realise that true care and understanding comes with the sense of support of individuality and its choices. Many tend to forget that respect never comes by force but in all sense comes with guidance and support to let the individual make a choice. The choice to choose a career, a partner and overall the way he/she dreams about life.
So before you say U CARE and U know EVERYTHING remember that INDIVIDUALITY deserves more priority than a what viewpoint you have.

I wish I had answers
To the thoughts that my prevailed my mind

I asked myself a simple question
Why was I surrounded by
So much kindness
So much love
So much care

So many people
So many friends
So many memories

For my answers
I gazed outside my window
and watched the surroundings

I watched many people
As they walked across my sight
I wondered at each of them
How many were like me

Were their lives similar
To what I have
To what I own
To what I cherish

Life was moving
They were at work

Watchful were ...
Their words
Their actions
Their demands

How many of them had someone
or something to care about

I wondered if they were searching for something
Something that bereaved them

I crystal gazed at my future
Flooded were my thoughts
Would I turn the same?
Would life be this way?

I groped into darkness

Thats when amongst the dark
I found a shining gem
I moved towards it
I treaded uncaring

Answers came
That this is what i found..

I embraced this gem
I closed my hands
And held it tight under my fists

I would never let it go
Never let it fall
Never lose it

My gem signified
My people
My friends
My memories..

Confused!!!!!

Dont know!! Why I make promises.. when i know its hard to keep them up.. They just transcend away with time and usually disappoint everyone.. When I am out to make people happy and myself the same I keep hopes that I shall meet my promises this time. But again and again they turn futile on me.

I feel sometimes work takes toll on u not least with the amount and kind of it but with a change in place. For some reason it takes away from u the joy of having people around u love the most.

In this case.. as my grp wud understand it.. I yet again dive into the unknown.. for time will tell if I am gonna be around in one place or not.

Crazy lil thing makes me confused.. which is to be happy or not.. the last time I left hometown it was only similar.. leaving back ppl i am so used to..and finding ppl around here(bangalore) whom i was so used to.. made them promises..but the tide turned against me.. yet again.. dont know how i can console myself or them.. happy for ppl back there.. sad to leave the ppl here..

I dont know whether to make promises yet again.. promises to ppl in hometown tht i am there forever.. promises to ppl here that i shall be back someday..

All i can say is its difficult for my ppl more than me.. i can only suffice myself with the fact that atleast I have someone around.. Ideally, I claim to wish that this ordeal gets over soon.. and all of us are together..
Grumble!! Grumble!! is all I can do till then.. wait for time to see if it ever will come true..

Thanks for bearing me, all of u!!

LONAVALA TRIP

Guys and gals!!!! of the GANG.... Please view this blog of lonavala from bottom to top... Rest assured it will make sense..... ENJOY!!!!

Well i know!! this Go Karting thing happened in between all this!! but i put this piece here for saying something!!!

1) We learnt a thing or two abt driving a vehicle from our sardar sahab..

2) I won the race between the three of us.. I know u ppl will kill me.. but me standing right in between means top position!!

3) The expressions on our faces described our day at Lonavala..

4) I wish and hope that we go there once again with more people next time.. sorry guys and gals who missed this out..

4) Long live our GANG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

Well it was victory time for rajo!! Can u see his white yellowish teeth..

He had got us to heaven.. 

Well this was action packed!! Wanted a bit of risky stuff to happen.. me and sardar sahab tried to get down to one of the rocks behind rajo.. below it is a steep valley.. a view of heaven..

The other guys didnt allow us.. Well we looked on elsewhere.. wished we wud come back and go down there .. 

Well our Sardar sahab.. was lost.. thinking abt something.. Well he dosent have the un-thinking cap on his head.. he is different from the normal sardars..Wish I cud see him in that Pagdee.. 

Well i keep goin Ga Ga over this stuff.. Close runner up to the picture below..

We all chose to see our directions... 

wonder where we came!!! U can see that for urselves......

anyways.. this pic won the best photographed one.. see the valley.. 

Well we walked and walked until it arrived.. this was to be our Final Destinantion!!! 

Destination Ahead... Unknown.. Rajo got us here.. said.. aunty kaa ghar dekhne chalen.. He got some blasting in the way.. for we travelled on the roads less travelled... But wait.. Surprise Surprise!!! Watch the space above... 

After a neat pocket hole creator meal at fariyas resort... Psst Psst!!! gandhijis teen bunder said..

SEE NO EVIL- Rajo- i know how much tht dosent suit his eyes!!!
HEAR NO EVIL- Isnt Motu Always wanting to hear those Gaali's and give back some too..
DO NO EVIL- well he is our Green Peace organisation member.. Wonder why rajo always rajo calls him Jaanwar(Animal)!!!!! 

Hmm!! Thts one neat pic of contrasts!! I mean look at our faces and u will know.. Anyways.. Thts tiger springs at the back!!! 

Well we had to move.. Tiger falls was next.. look at the sardar capturing the man of thoughts.. DEMON!! SATAN!! 

But Rajo wudnt leave me.. We all joined the club.. Look at rajo.. doesnt he seem sweating already!!! Puff Pant!!!! 

I know what u all are thinking.. Why did we not go to Bushy Damn but to the top.. I wasnt willing to get involved in the G#Y@ club.. Look at the gap between his A@# and well u know.. But wait.. I was in for a surprise.. Find out next.. 

First Stop!!! Near Bushi Dam.. It was one damn place..and bushy tooo... we moved to a small hill top...from here.. 

Road to Lonavala

Enter Lonavala!!! Thts not our car, it ceased to follow us..Ours was an Indica.. Motu's INDICA..U all know why thts in BOLD..

Well I ll make this trip a worthwhile experience for u people.. i mean this blog..

Its our pics and what I make of it..

Here We Go!!!!!! 

Review of Shawshank Redemption

The Shawshank Redemption is to me a story of not only a jail break but of an intensely etched human emotion depicted flawlessly. Its cinema at excellence de par. The storyline, mimic and the cast come together as a perfect entanglement. Should I say more, than I am at loss of words at expressing it. The Oscars to its credit comes less for what it depicts.

Shawshank for the first timers is a state house prison. Its ugly realities comes across quickly as we are scene to a corrupt warden and some sadistic home guards. In comes Andy(Tim Robbins) who has been accused of a double murder and is strolled around the prison to be educated of the rules and regulations. What we see is a horrendous scene of guards and their leader putting the inmates through a eye raising series of torcher. Our man, an unlikely hero among the inmates is put to the sling. The scene is repeated at will to embed our eyes of the horror with which prison inmates are treated. A ghastly moment comes across with one of the inmates put to deathbed. As the inmates develop an uncanny relation amongst themsleves at the dinner table we see Red(Morgan Freeman) developing a special liking towards Andy. Together they learn of each others past and the repertoire they possess. While Andy is a banker, he readily puts his skills across table. He calls for managing the investments of his fellow mates and also finds a friend in the Library chief Bill. His reputation for patience pays as he brings about changes to the lives of people around him. He reforms the library and brings together some of his inmates to booze along with the warden. The transformation of the library brings to our eyes a sense of wetness. For the humor quotient there is Red, whose pardon, lies in answering a series of questions. The answer ceases to remain same each time and the stamp on it seals rejected. Its sure to tickle the funny bone.
Some nerve wracking moments are posted in the movie with great poise. The scene where Bill is set to retire and his search for a changed life at a grocery shop is beautifully shot. He cracks at the helm by hanging himself and smudges the wall to say BILL WAS HERE. The cleverness of Andy at studying geophysical novels is worth the wait. The background narration of Morgan Freeman is first rate. We wait to watch when the jail break will happen and it happens a slow pace. What makes it so rendering to watch is the way Andy breaks through and lets Red join. The climax of a violent and well sketched plan is never put across as Andy muddles his way out through endless amount of patience and decades of work. That Red makes his way out passing the fragile set of questions of the pardoning committee is answered as it lingers us. The way with which Andy sets clue for Red to be together at the end is heartwarming. And the smudged wall where Bill darned his presence is added to with the names of Andy and Red. It leaves our mind in exasperation for more such cinema. We are indeed brought together for this endlessly watchable film.
"Go get it".